An
internet search on the phrase "when push comes to shove" led to a
website at grammarist.com. That site defined the phase as "an American
idiom that describes the critical time when a decision / commitment must be
made, when action must be taken to back up words." That definition reminds
me of the Spanish proverb that says, "It’s not the same to talk of bulls
as to be in the bullring." And then there’s the unknown bullfighter who
said, "To fight a bull when you are not scared is nothing. And to not
fight a bull when you are scared is nothing. But to fight a bull when you are
scared – that is something." These words apply to Christians. We all have
some "when push comes to shove" moments. Those "fight or
flight" moments when we must decide if a particular action will be
faithful or foolhardy. David fought and felled a nine-foot tall giant Goliath
with nothing but a sling and a stone (1 Sam. 17. But later, as he ran
and sought to hide from King Saul’s attempts to kill him, David confessed in Psalm
56:3, "What time I am afraid, I will trust in you." We remember
Moses as the fearless, mighty man of faith who marched boldly into Pharaoh’s
court in Egypt, thundering God’s command to "Let My people go." But
in Exodus 3:10ff, when God initially told him he would be the one to go
to Egypt to lead God’s people out of slavery, the Exodus narrative reveals God
had to push Moses to the point of shoving him! Moses’ faith finally kicked in.
He overcame his fear and got busy doing what God called him to do. Peter and
the rest of Jesus’ apostles had a "when push comes to shove moment"
the night Judas betrayed the Lord in the Garden of Gethsemane. Earlier that
evening all the apostles verbally expressed undying devotion to Him, declaring
they would never forsake Him, even if they had to die (Matt.26:34-35).
But a few hours later, crunch time came, and fear (temporarily) smothered their
faith. They all forsook Jesus and fled (Matt.26:56). But later in Acts
2 and the following chapters, other "when push comes to shove"
moments came along. Now, filled with the Holy Spirit of God and trusting
Christ’s promise to always be with them (Matt.28:20), their faith pushed
fear out of the way. Repeatedly facing verbal and even physical beatings if
they didn’t stop preaching the Christ, they stuck their necks out and kept
preaching anyway. Their actions backed up their words. And talk about a
"when push comes to shove moment" – check out Esther, our ancient
ancestor in faith, a Jewess who became the Queen of Persia (her story is in the
Old Testament book that bears her name). The critical moment in her life is in Esther
chapter 4. In a threatening situation fraught with risk and fear, she chose
to line act in faith rather than allow fear to hold her back and imperil her
own life and the lives of all her Jewish kinsmen throughout the Persian Empire.
We remember Esther, not because she wasn’t afraid, but because when "push
came to shove," she declared in Esther 4:16, "And so I will go
in to the king, which is against the [Persian] law; and if I perish, I
perish!" She fought the bull when she was scared. Now that was some-
thing! Because she acted courageously even in the face of risk, she and the
Jewish people were preserved.
Today, "when push comes to shove" moments still confront the people of God. Moments when the need is to step out in faith, push back on fear, and do what we know is right, not merely what is easy or "safe." Moments when we take actions that back up our words. What do you do "when push comes to shove?"
by: Dan Gulley, Smithville, TN