Saturday, December 19, 2015

Funeral poems



A Part, Not Apart

Eric passed the lighted candle to Sean.  As his youth minister, he told Sean how he appreciated him for many reasons, including his great leadership in the youth group, his strong work ethic, and his dependability.

Now it was Sean’s turn.  In this activity designed to build cohesiveness and appreciation in the youth group, to whom would Sean give the candle and say something nice?  He gave the lighted candle to Amberlee.  One of the reasons he said he elected to give it to her was because she would sing out when the group would praise God in song.

Sean probably never knew the impact that he had made on Amberlee by his gesture and his words.

On December 8, 2015, Sean passed from this life at only 20 years of age after a fatal malfunction of his heart for reasons unknown.  All who knew him and loved him are heartbroken, including Amberlee.  In his honor, she decided to share a poem that reveals the impact that Sean and his kindness had on her life.  She wrote:

I thought I was invisible
I thought I was unknown
I thought I was unnoticed
I thought I was alone
Then he said some kind words
He said them about me
He said I lifted him up
He did the same for me
He made me feel included
His words just touched my heart
He passed the candle my way
And then I felt I was a part

At the conclusion of her tribute, she wrote: “Thank you, Sean Frazier, for being one of the first ones to make me feel like a true member of the Creekwood family.” – Amberlee Miller

A part, not apart.

That’s what Jesus wants for each of us.  He doesn’t want us to be “APART” from Him, although that is what our sin does: it separates us from God and puts us on the path of eternal destruction (Isaiah 59:1-2; Matthew 7:13-14).

Jesus wants each of us to be “a part” of His family.  He died on the cross for our sins so that we might have forgiveness, be reconciled to God, and be united with Him in God’s family, the church (Ephesians 1:7; 2 Corinthians 5:17-21; Galatians 3:26-27).

Jesus will save, add to God’s family, and give the gift of eternal life to those who place their faith and trust in Him (Acts 16:30-31), turn from their sins in repentance (Acts 17:30-31), confess Jesus before men (Romans 10:9-10), and are baptized (immersed) into Christ for the forgiveness of their sins (Acts 2:38).  The atoning blood that Jesus shed in His death will continue to cleanse those who continue to walk in the light of His Word (1 John 1:7).

Jesus died on the cross for us so that none of us have to be “apart” from Him.  He gave His life for us so that we can be “a part” of His family – now and forever.

Won’t YOU accept his offer of salvation and eternal life on His terms?                                   

– David A. Sargent

* In loving memory of Sean Thomas Frazier, July 29, 1995 - December 8, 2015.  Until we meet again…

David A. Sargent

Wednesday, December 9, 2015

Church Experiences



We were visiting with some good friends this past week after a long separation. We sat up for hours catching up on every imaginable topic. Of course we discussed our churches and some of the many happenings there.

They shared a recent incident that had happened when a non-Christian friend visited their congregation. Later in the day he was trying to tell someone about his "Church Experience". He described how friendly everyone was with him and how much he loved that. Then he told them about the preaching and how he enjoyed the message and the presentation by the preacher who was not stuffy at all. He then tried to describe the singing, during which the words to the songs were projected on a screen above the pulpit. In describing this he said excitedly, "And they sing Karaoke"!

I found the description humorous to say the least, but it made me wonder about what folks think when they visit our church. Years ago I heard a man discuss the "secret language" used in churches. We use words like, "deacon" and "elder" or even "minister" and just assume folks understand what we are talking about. We write abbreviations such as "Mt", "Mk", "Lk" and "Jn" and assume that people will know that stands for the bible books of Matthew, Mark, Luke and John. We may even sing acapella and assume that folks know that means we don't use musical instruments in our worship.

So, stop and think about what you are doing in your worship sometime. Maybe even make sure our church visitors have a little understanding about what is happening. Not everyone was "raised going to church," and just don't have the same background as you might. They may be like the little girl who innocently said of Communion, "I love going to church, they serve juice and crackers every week, just like my preschool".

We may not actually "sing Karaoke," the way the world perceives it, but hopefully we are those described by Jesus in John 4:23where he says, "Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in the Spirit and in truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks." Spirit and Truth is a must, Karaoke… not so much!

--Russ Lawson

Tuesday, December 8, 2015

A Christmas sermon



He Came!
Galatians 4:4-7
A Different Christmas Letter
1.     It was Christmas time, 1942, and Dietrich Bonhoeffer wrote a letter to friends and former students in which he returned to the themes he favored in his sermons at that time of year:
The joy of God goes through the poverty of the manger and the agony of the cross; that is why it is invincible, irrefutable. It does not deny the anguish, when it is there, but finds God in the midst of it, in fact precisely there; it does not deny grave sin but finds forgiveness precisely in this way; it looks death straight in the eye, but it finds life precisely within it.[1]
2.     One year later, in December 1943, Bonhoeffer expressed that idea more strongly: “A prison cell,” he wrote, “is a good analogy for Advent; one waits, hopes, does this or that — ultimately negligible things — the door is locked and can only be opened  from the outside” (George).  He wrote from Berlin’s Tegel military prison where he awaited trial, having been arrested by the Nazis the previous April.
3.     In the year Jesus was born, many in Israel probably had feelings similar to Bonhoeffer’s. Their people had been waiting centuries for the marvelous prophetic promises to be realized. How much longer would they have to be insulted by the rule of the pagans from the West? Endure the often vicious whims of Herod? Deliverance, salvation, could not come too soon!
4.     Unlike Bonhoeffer, they would not have connected that deliverance to a cross. But not many do. That’s why many who love the story of the sweet baby Jesus treat lightly, resist, or reject the teachings and way of the adult Christ.
5.     Are we among them? That depends on how completely we keep in mind all of the story of Jesus’ coming. Paul reminds us in just four verses.
He Came — and Remains — For Our Rescue
I.      He Came (Gal. 4:4).
A.    The specific burden for which Paul sought freedom for the Galatians (see Gal. 5:1) was but one of many; God's solution is the answer to all burdens.
B.     God came here, in his Son, into the messiness of human history: “. . . his Son [was] born of woman, born under the law” (v. 4).
1.     As John put it, he “became flesh and dwelt among us” (Jn. 1:14); NET translates it, “took up residence among us.”
2.     Luke put it in more concrete terms: Jesus was born — like you and me (Lk. 2:6); his first bed was a feeding trough (2:7), which was where the shepherds who heard the glorious angel chorus found him (2:16).
C.    Paul reminds us that the teaching is that God intervened. He wrote, “God sent forth his Son . . .” (Gal. 4:4), not “God sent Jesus to become his Son.”[2]
1.     How remarkable is that? Hear John again: the one who took up residence among us  was “with God,” “was God,” and “was in the beginning with God” (Jn. 1:1-2).
2.     It’s as hands-on as could be: God came here!
II.    A Rescue Operation (Gal. 4:5).
A.    Like all the early Christians, Paul knew that the real story is not the story of a little baby.
1.     Being a baby was just the first step in his complete identification with even the lowliest of us (Phil. 2:5-8; Heb. 4:15).
2.     In his Son, God became vulnerable; the baby would be taken to Egypt for his protection, and then taken back to Israel and eventually to Nazareth (Mt. 2:13-14, 21).
B.     That vulnerability was necessary to accomplish his purpose.
1.     He came “[in order] to (ἵνα, hina) redeem those who were under the law” (Gal. 4:5).
a)     “Redeem” is ἐξαγοράζω, exagorazō; buy back, secure deliverance, liberate.[3]
2.     That was what Israel had been longing to hear (see Lk. 1:51-55, 68-74).
3.     The prophets expected it for all (Lk. 2:29-32; 4:18-19; see Isa. 42:6-7; 49:6-8; 52:10; 58:6; 61:1-2).
C.    Redemption is not all of the story.
1.     “. . . so that we might receive adoption as sons” (Gal. 4:5).
a)     “So that” (ἵνα, hina) expresses the purpose or intended result of the redeeming (Fung, 182).
2.     Paul wrote to both Jews and non-Jews; he was saying that because of Jesus, all can be granted the full rights and status as God’s sons!
a)     Even without the problem of sin, that would be amazing! Created beings described with the same word that was used of the one who was with God in the beginning.
b)     With the problem of sin it boggles the mind (Rom. 3:23; 5:6-8; see Isa. 59:1-2)!
D.    Surely, we can see how that surpasses the Christmas story as typically told!
III.   He Remains with Us (Gal. 4:6-7).
A.    Dependent as we are on the Son for our new status, how do we handle things now that he has returned to the Father? (See Jn. 14:2-5; 16:7, 10; Acts 1:9-11.)
1.     As promised, “God has sent the Spirit of the Son into our hearts (Gal. 4:6; Jn. 14:16, 26; 16:12-15) .
2.     What does he do? Verse 6 is fascinating: the Son’s Spirit cries “Abba! Father!”
a)     That is the Son’s prayer (Mk. 14:36)!
b)     It is the prayer Paul says believers now pray (Rom. 8:15)!
c)     The sense of Galatians 4:6 is that the Spirit is so entwined into our hearts that he is inseparable from us as we cry out (see Rom. 8:26-27) (see Fung, 185).
B.     Verse 7 adds more: we have completely left behind the status and life of a slave and are so firmly established as sons that Paul can say we are heirs through God.
C.    Verses 6-7 remind us that God’s grace doesn’t stop giving at our baptism (see Jn. 14:18).


God Seeks to Open the Door
1.      We return to Bonhoeffer: “A prison cell . . . is a good analogy for Advent. One waits, hopes, . . . [but] the door is locked and can only be opened from the outside.
2.      Those words confuse people who have been told that “it’s the most wonderful time of the year” and want to think only of laughter, gifts, extra kindness, newness, and birth.
3.      But, they make perfect sense to those who in this time of year find deep sadness, depression, and, in some tragic cases, even suicide.
4.      Those people remind us that we all need something more than the respite of a “wonderful time.” Something only the God of the manger and the cross can give. As Bonhoeffer saw clearly: the door must be opened from the outside.
5.      Revelation 3:6 tells us that we must welcome Jesus’ help. “Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he with me.” Will you let him in?


[1] In Timothy George, “Bonhoeffer in Advent,” First Things, 12-15-14, http://www.firstthings.com/web-exclusives/2014/12/bonhoeffer-in-advent. Accessed December 16, 2014.
[2] Ronald Y. K. Fung, The Epistle to the Galatians (Grand Rapids, MI: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company, 1988), 181-182.
[3] Walter Bauer, A Greek-English Lexicon of the New Testament and Other Early Christian Literature, ed. Frederick W. Danker, 3rd ed. (Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 2000), BibleWorks. v.9

--David Anguish