“A plan in the heart of a man is like deep water, But a man of understanding draws it out” (Proverbs 20:5 NASB). Wisdom greatly enhances our ability to deal with others. Wisdom helps us to see from another’s point of view: to see another’s perspective, thoughts, and intentions. This can never be done, however, through prejudice and assumptions; these are contrary to God’s ways (cf. Proverbs 18:17, 28:21; John 7:24; Romans 2:11). Instead, a man of understanding will use examination and communication to draw out another’s hidden thoughts. There is much knowledge to be gained by simply asking a person about their thoughts and intentions. Questions can also be used to uncover deceit and manipulation in an apparently good deal. This is not easy to do, but taking the time to converse with others and understand them is worth the effort.
--Jeremy Sprouse
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