How to find happiness

 I WANT TO BE RICH . . . OR AT LEAST SMART

In the light of the admonition in Hebrews 13:7—“. . . consider the outcome of their [your spiritual leaders’] way of life . . .” AND having now lived long enough to make some observations about what things in life contribute to a truly successful life and what things don’t, I’m going to make a few observations.

I’ve decided that the things that people want the most in life—to be exceptionally smart, beautiful, rich and talented—are generally more harmful than beneficial.

Do I expect anyone under fifty years old to believe that? Not really. Because you haven’t lived long enough to witness it for yourself. Everybody wants to be at least one of those, don’t we?

But these things really do not bring lasting happiness. When that’s what you build your life around, what happens when they’re gone? Or when someone comes along who is more beautiful . . . talented . . . richer or smarter? And don’t think it won’t happen. If you live very long, you’re going to lose—at least to some degree—every one of those things- because they are based in your mind or body. The possible exception is money. You might be able to keep accumulating it till you die. “And then whose shall these things be?” In the end, money becomes the master and you are the servant—if that’s what you lived for.

The very thing that made you happy in your youth may be the source of great sadness later in your life.

Now, having said all that, let me say that being beautiful, talented, rich or smart can be a great blessing—if you use it to be more effective in serving others. If you realize that none of these things are permanent. If that doesn’t become the source of your security and happiness.

So don’t waste your time envying those who have those things.  It’s hard for a rich man to go to heaven.  And for the same reason… it’s hard for someone who is exceptionally beautiful, smart or talented. 

Ken Stegall