It is indeed the natural way of man to constantly seek the approval of others. Teenagers, for example, look to their peers in particular as a means of gauging their own worth. John reveals this as a widespread human condition: “For they loved the praise of men more than the praise of God.”
But
don’t get John wrong. It is not wrong to be praised by others. For, if it is
wrong to be praised by men, then we sin when we praise someone. Our Lord
praised those who had done well. He praised a poor widow for giving all to God
(Mark 12:43). He praised some for their great faith (Matthew 8:10; 15:28). The
apostle Paul praised some brethren for their great works in the Lord (Romans
16:3-4; Philippians 2:20; Philemon 1:7).
Consider
the context of John 12:43 where this statement was made. “Nevertheless among
the chief rulers also many believed on him; but because of the Pharisees they
did not confess him, lest they should be put out of the synagogue: For
they loved the praise of men more than the praise of God” (John 12:42-43).
John
was referring to the chief rulers of the Jews. These men loved their social
status more than they loved the name of Jesus. By confessing Christ they knew
they would run the risk of losing their places of honour and contempt of men,
and therefore they chose rather not to confess Christ. They were too concern
about their status and were ashamed to admit their faith in Jesus. They preferred
men’s approval rather than God’s approval.
It
is this praise seeking attention that God condemns. Jesus spoke of the
hypocrites that prayed and gave gifts to be seen by men (Matthew 6:1-5). It
gives me gooses bumps whenever a preacher tells a congregation he has preached
for over so many years in so many countries and baptised so many people, and
written so many books. I dislike introducing foreign preachers and I would let
someone else do it; I just don’t enjoy reading out that long list of credentials.
It’s not that I’m jealous but I don’t think they are important. Like Paul, I
consider them as “dung” (Philippians 3:8). Even if it is good deeds, it does
build up their pride and importance. And as Jesus said: “They have their
reward” (Matthew 6:2, 5). That is, they have obtained the applause they
seek and hence this applause is all they will have, there is therefore no
further reward to be looked for or obtained from God. I would prefer to wait
for God’s reward rather than men’s applause.
But
having said that, let us not be miser in giving honour when honour is due. Good
words are sweet to the soul and health to the bones. They do motivate and
encourage another person to continue in the good works. But pray that the
recipient does nor become inflated with pride upon receiving it.
We
need to take our Lord Jesus as the example of not seeking His own glory but of
the Father. He didn’t come down as a handsome and mighty king; He came as a
servant (Philippians 2:7). He was not born in a king’s palace but in an animal
shed (Luke 2:7). Yet, in spite of His humble background, He was exalted on
high. “And whosoever shall exalt himself shall be abased; and he that shall
humble himself shall be exalted” (Matthew 23:12).
If
we have the same attitude of not striving for reputation, God will exalt us: “Therefore
humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due
time” (1 Peter 5:6).
When
you are easily discouraged, irritated, or angry when your efforts are not
appreciated by others or when others receive credit for something they had done
and yours were not mentioned, you are seeking the praises of men. Men’s
approval is not important and it lasts only for a moment whereas God’s stamp of
approval ensures an eternal reward: “Well done, good and faithful
servant….enter thou into the joy of thy lord” (Matthew 25:21). Seek the
praise that is from God!
Let
us serve God with humility. Even if we think we have done much for the Lord, we
are still “unworthy servants; we have only done what was our duty” (Luke
17:10). Let us seek to glorify God and not ourselves.
Jimmy Lau
Psa
119:97 Oh how love I thy law! It is my meditation all the day.
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