Friday, January 23, 2015

How to overcome my fears



    Replacing Fear With Good Cheer!       

Jerry Seinfeld spoke about fear. He said, “According to most studies, people’s number one fear is of public speaking. Number two is death. Does that sound right? This means to the average person, if you go to a funeral, you’re better off in the casket than doing the eulogy.” Fear is a real deal.
 
Human beings fear many different things. A website called PsychCentral
(psychcentral.com) states there are over 200 recognized phobias. They range from arachnophobia (fear of spiders) to decidophobia (fear of making decisions) to didaskaleinophobia (fear of going to school!) to testophobia (fear of tests) and even bibliophobia (fear of books). Many men, and some women too, have pentherophobia (fear of one’s mother-in-law)! People can be afraid of just about any and every thing on earth. Matthew 14:25-26 tells about a dark, stormy night on the Sea of Galilee when Jesus’ apostles experienced phasmophobia, that is the fear of ghosts! In the aforementioned verses Jesus walks atop heavy waves toward the wind-bounced boat the apostles are in. Matthew records in verses 25-26, “Now in the fourth watch of the night [about 3 a. m.] Jesus went to them, walking on the sea. And when the disciples saw him walking on the sea, they were troubled, saying, ‘It is a ghost!’ and they cried out for fear.” The rest of the narrative relates how Peter got out of the boat, starting walking to Jesus on the water, then became afraid and began to sink until Jesus grabbed him after he cried out, “Lord, save me!” Jesus apparently helped him back into the boat. Matthew, who would have been in the boat that terrifying night, writes, “Then those who were in the boat came and worshiped him, saying, ‘Truly You are the Son of God’ ” (verse 33). What would you have said?!

What storm or ghost frightens you today? A New Yorker cartoon suggests even thieves and crooks are scared. The cartoon showed a very cared masked burglar rousing a couple from sleep in their up-stairs bedroom. The caption reads, “Wake up, wake up. There’s a noise downstairs, and it’s not me.” The people who were afraid in Matthew 14 were apostles! They were scared to death when they saw Jesus walking on the water (vs 26) . They thought He was a ghost, for crying out loud – a bad case of phasmophobia. They remind us that even those who are most intimate and familiar with Jesus may at times find themselves in fear- producing circumstances in life. Fears about debt, disease, and death.
 
Fears about health and healthcare and health insurance. Fears about work and fears about retirement. Fears about the future as well as the past.  Fears about violent our families and our finances. Fears about the church and about our kids and fears about getting old. As you think about your fears remember this – the ghost that struck such fear into the apostles that night turned out to not be a ghost at all – it was Jesus, and He was walking on top of the very waves that were threatening to sink them! When they cried out for fear, Matthew writes in verse 27, “Immediately Jesus spoke to them, saying, ‘Be of good cheer! It is I; do not be afraid.”

The storms of life can truly be frightening at times, but the presence of Christ makes a real difference when our boat is being tossed. If Jesus expected His apostles – in a boat, in the middle of a storm, in the middle of the sea, in the middle of the night – if Jesus expected them to replace fear with “good cheer” (courage), what would He expect of us as we face our storms? Replace fear with good cheer!

--by Dan Gulley, Smithville, TN

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